Wow. Pavane, I can’t imagine all the feelings that come out of this story for you. I’m not offended at all. In fact, you have given me some insight into other perspectives on why people my be asking these question.

I’m sorry to hear about your aunt and the trauma her experience and your experiences have left on your life.

I would never have thought that my response could bring such triggers for others hurts in these areas. I do hope to reassure you that my wife and I are in it together. I know my story does read a little one sided, but we are on the same page and excited about this little one.

Thank you for reading and leaving a note. I hope and pray that you will find peace and healing from what you have experienced.